tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6436611972181544716.post7863428354256630582..comments2016-11-01T00:00:07.409-04:00Comments on The LABOR of Love: HOW DO YOU PLEAD?Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07767573022063365960noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6436611972181544716.post-1236357451962773032011-03-17T19:12:14.360-04:002011-03-17T19:12:14.360-04:00Hi Alex, I'm going to follow this with interes...Hi Alex, I'm going to follow this with interest, as someone who tried - but has since pretty much given up on - online dating.<br />(Although I live in hope).<br />There is an old post about some of my experiences on my blog, but it might just put you off.dirtycowgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04193492692357362402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6436611972181544716.post-41463132672037432552011-03-16T01:06:07.984-04:002011-03-16T01:06:07.984-04:00How is it that I find myself anticipating these li...How is it that I find myself anticipating these little stories of yours. Comment time:<br /><br />1. Maybe you feel bad (referring to the Marathon Man) because even with all of his efforts, logically you should be Swept (off of your feet) but because you weren't, maybe your blaming yourself for the lack of attraction that you THINK you should feel, even though you really have no control over. Attraction isn't logical. <br /><br />2. First date "Drink": Yes, it's cheaper. Gives both parties a chance to relax. And also, (guy readers will hate me for giving up our secret) a drunk/tipsy girl is more open to give "affection". Sadly, some guys rely (heavily) upon alcohol as a wingman. Others rely on charm, wit, humor and charisma :)<br /><br />As for the man pulling out all the stops...in our defense, it's up to us to impress you so that you'd WANT to choose us. And we just like to have a plan in case things go wrong. The problem I find with women is that you anticipate an ulterior motive from a nice gesture even when there is no motive. SOMETIMES we are genuinely nice. <br /><br />Just know this...men are visual, women are emotional.<br />Men look at women in this order- face, boobs, butt, face.<br />Men will always want, anticipate, and be ready for sex. It's not our fault, we're just hardwired that way.<br />These are all primal instincts though. <br /><br />It defines are species, but not our psyche. If he's at least trying to impress you, you must be worth something right?<br /><br />This is just 1 man's opinion, maybe a bit too analytical in which I apologize. In my defense, I had a lot of sugar today :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04074578167794821296noreply@blogger.com